Why Gen Z Is Struggling with Sleep and Loneliness

Despite being the most digitally connected generation, Gen Z is reporting record levels of loneliness and sleep disruption. In this post, we explore how social media habits, overstimulation, and cultural pressures are affecting young people’s mental health, and why therapy offers something tech can’t: real connection, safety, and healing. Whether you’re part of Gen Z or care about someone who is, this post offers insight, validation, and hope.

Despite being the most digitally connected generation, Gen Z is reporting record levels of loneliness and sleep disruption. In this post, we explore how social media habits, overstimulation, and cultural pressures are affecting young people’s mental health, and why therapy offers something tech can’t: real connection, safety, and healing. Whether you’re part of Gen Z or care about someone who is, this post offers insight, validation, and hope.

Why Gen Z Is Struggling with Sleep and Loneliness

If you’re part of Gen Z or love someone who is, you may have noticed something troubling: despite being more connected than ever, many young people are feeling deeply isolated. Add in poor sleep habits, and it creates a perfect storm for mental health struggles. Let’s explore what’s going on and how therapy can help.

The Social Media–Sleep Cycle

It’s no secret that Gen Z is constantly online. Apps like TikTok, Instagram, and YouTube provide community, creativity, and escape, but they also disrupt healthy rhythms.

Endless scrolling before bed can:

  • Interfere with melatonin production
  • Keep the nervous system in a state of alert
  • Delay sleep and reduce overall rest quality

When sleep suffers, so does emotional regulation, focus, and resilience. Over time, sleep deprivation can intensify anxiety and depression.

Therapist insight: Healthy sleep isn’t just about turning off your phone; it’s about learning to feel safe enough to rest. That often takes more than just willpower.

Loneliness in a Connected World

Paradoxically, the generation most “plugged in” is also the loneliest. A 2023 Cigna study found that Gen Z reports the highest levels of loneliness of any generation.

Here’s why:

  • Digital interaction often lacks depth and vulnerability.
  • Online comparison culture can leave people feeling inadequate or excluded.
  • Pandemic-related disruptions impacted key social development years for many teens and young adults.

Many Gen Z individuals crave real connection but fear rejection or judgment. It’s not a lack of desire, it’s a lack of safe, affirming spaces.

The Mental Health Cost

Chronic loneliness and poor sleep are linked to:

  • Increased risk of anxiety, depression, and burnout
  • Lower self-esteem and self-trust
  • Reduced cognitive functioning and attention span

The good news? Gen Z is also the generation most likely to talk about mental health and seek therapy. That awareness is powerful—and it’s a step toward healing.

Therapy Offers What Social Media Can’t

At Anchor Health Counseling, we work with teens and young adults to unpack the pressure, perfectionism, and pain that often go unseen. Therapy provides:

  • A consistent, judgment-free relationship
  • Tools to rebuild sleep and screen boundaries
  • Space to explore emotions that feel “too much” elsewhere
  • Guidance to practice real-world connection and self-compassion

Whether you’re dealing with anxiety, identity questions, or just feeling stuck—therapy can help you feel less alone and more grounded.

You’re Not Alone in Feeling Alone

It’s okay to feel tired, disconnected, or overwhelmed. You’re not doing life wrong—you’re responding to a world that often feels too much. The good news? You don’t have to figure it out alone.